Okay we all know about Tofee and his strange obsession with getting revenge on the Butterfly family. I have a theory about the reasoning behind his actions, I think that Tofee was at one point was married/engage about with someone in the Butterfly family. This is based on the fact that his finger that is missing might be his ring finger and usually people who are married engaged wear matching wedding rings/bands. Now I am assuming that he was probably married to a member of the butterfly family because he stared whisfully at the castle, he knows everything about the wand and about the whispering spell. Now this raises the another question who was he married/engaged to. My theory is that it might have been Miss Heinious the person who runs St. Olga', this is based on that she was previously a mewian princess because she has cheek stickers almost similar to stars and her families when they suddenly popped up. She may have been a princess until she was either expelled or disowned due to her behavior and may have decided to dedicate herself to being a "perfect". I assume that she was married to Tofee because it probably took some tramatic experience. Yes I get is wild speculation and that I am going on grounds of my own theories.